Plain and Simple.
Like one loves someone. Does one compare them with others? No.
One just loves them.
Thats why, when there is any dance performance in my college, I just like to dance. But then I dont like to get into the competition loop..
I know people say competitive spirit makes a performance better. But somehow, I cant fit into this concept of competition.
Run not to beat someone, run because you like to run.
Dance not to show you are a better dancer than someone, dance because you love to dance.