Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Can I forgive and forget?

They say humans should always learn to forgive and forget. That is always a virtue.But what if one cant?What if one feels that some mistakes are beyond forgiveness?Are there mistakes that are beyond forgiveness?Or is it just that we ,mortals ,dont just have the ability to forgive someone who hurt you .Or even if not forgive,atleast forget.I can forget mistakes by others easily,but are we sure we can forgive? And mortals would always think one fundamental question."Why should I forgive if it was the other person who hurt you" ans ordinarily a person would think..Why forgive?The question still remains unanswered . Should one forgive other humans even if they feel their mistakes is beyond forgiveness?

5 comments:

amit said...

well this world is too small to hate and have ill feelings for one another...anger,pride,ego are the things that are gonna make a person repent upon his/her decision in the future..
forgiving is just gonna make u a better person in life...and wanna make me have u evn more...love u...u r the best...

priyakumar7.7 said...

fool man...dont try to have me u idiot.im happy being single..

Alfan said...

I ve heard these words"forgive and forget"from u earlier..n always appreciated u inside to initiate such a brave thought..I really think it needs true courage to "forgive and forget"

"Are there mistakes that are beyond forgiveness?Or is it just that we ,mortals ,dont just have the ability to forgive someone who hurt you."

C, u urself said the answer....n about "Should one forgive other humans even if they feel their mistakes are beyond forgiveness?" i can't comment..this question confuses even me sometimes..

N hey, im not judging anyone by this comment ok..this is MY opinion..that's it..

Anonymous said...

well...yeah,its sumtyms difficult 2 frgt some mistakes of othrs...but then MISTAKES r mistakes...they'r not sins....
so wen u feel such dilemma...just thnk that may b a day might have came or would come wen u may yearn for forgiveness....n then,just think abt 'forgive or forget or seek revenge'... :)

Anonymous said...

One should have the ability to forgive others, not for the sake of others but the sake of oneself.

But that is ideal and seldom does such a thing as "ideal" exist.

Btw, if you have forgotten about something bad which someone had done to you in the past, then that indicates nothing but the fact that you have already forgiven that person.