So I have been very very negative with everything around me for the past couple of days. I haven't yet been able to figure out what it is, but its eating me up. I thought I should blog about it, because as much as I don't gather strength to write down when I'm low, it is the truth that only blogging really helps me vent out all that is there inside.
So I have been very insecure lately. With everything around me. With OT. And sometimes I just feel its immaturity. In fact I ALWAYS feel it after I am done feeling that negative emotion. Has it ever happened to you that you feel so insecure about everyone around you? This ugly feeling that your friends have more important friends than you? And then to avoid that you try and cling on to them more, and that puts them off all the more. And then you get more annoyed and cling on even more.
And the cycle goes on.
The only way to break this cycle?
To get rid of your own shortcomings.
I mean forget ego, forget being right all the time. Whats more important right now is not to be important, but to understand that its OK to be wrong , as long as at the end of it you thank yourself for being wrong and correcting it.
Sometimes even when work goes on very well, and to avoid facing the problems that we are facing, we tend to hide in excess of work, making ourselves believe that working like mad will actually divert attention.
Sorry to burst the bubble, but it doesn't. It just waits for it to ferment inside, till it becomes so stale but you cannot get it out because its become a part of your skin.
That is exactly what I have been doing till now. Any problem, any shortcoming, anything that bothers me... I sink myself in work.
End result : Work has gone well. I haven't.
So I take a pledge this time. Next time I have a problem, I solve it then and there and then move on in life. And blog about it if I have the time, space and required tools.
How many of you are with me in taking this pledge? I hope to create an anonymous page where we can rant away all out problems, we can share with each other how to solve it , but never have to know who it really was.
After all, there is a huge part of all of us that does not like telling others if we have a problem. All of us are born in a way where we'll show we are happier than what we really are. I think its good in a way, its like Fake smiling.
When you are upset and still have to smile, you start feeling genuinely happy after sometime.
But lets get to the root of it this time. Lets make ourselves feel better . Lets be honest and get all the negativity out. Trust me, its Ok to be sad about something. We are human after all right. Just like we feel happy, we do feel sad,upset, insecure, negative, suspicious, impatient, intolerant.
I am saying all this because this is what I am (or was) experiencing .
And every time, blogging substantiates my belief of being therapeutic in nature.
So lets take a pledge together today, shall we?
2 comments:
Try out this page to vent out the negativity.....
http://www.writesomething.net/
i'm in priya! for the pledge thingy..but i guess if someday we'l all sit, all we people who are at a stage in life facing some major problems tht tend to reap those seeds of negativity within us; and given a chance to exchange our problems amongst ourselves; most of us wud prefer takin our problems bk n getting bk home! The more we keep brooding during night time or in those lonely hours, the more we become negative! Somehow yes, keeping urself busy does help! but one cannot work like a machine right? these mood swings n those feelings of constant insecurity with a loved one makes us so much negative! uff..hope we meet someday girl..there so much to discuss n pour my heart out since when i read something u write tht is similar to wot i feel, i kinda console myself tht theres this one girl atleast whose thinking matches my track! love!
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